
Not Healing Emotionally?
Do you read every self-help book you can get your hands on? Are you always doing the latest fad that promises to heal you and make you feel better? Are you frustrated that you continue to feel and act the same way, even after you have read every book, researched many “how-tos,” and tried to understand why you are the way you are? Have you prayed and prayed, yet you keep doing the same “shaming” thing over and over again? Are there parts of you that you despise?
Oftentimes, when you are trying to heal, you think you need to repress and deny the “bad parts” of yourself. You either ignore the parts of yourself that you want to change, or you are hypercritical of the parts of yourself you do not like. For example, if you drink too much one evening, you may think, “What is wrong with me? Why do I always drink so much? Why can’t I control myself? I am so embarrassed.” Or if you are at a social gathering and say something that causes you to wonder if what you said was good or bad. You get home and think, “Why did I say that? I am such an idiot. I am sure everyone is talking about me. Why can’t I just be confident? I probably made someone annoyed with me. They don’t like me.”

Other times, we intellectualize and over-rationalize our behavior, which only reiterates our belief that we need to fix the bad parts of us. We work so hard to “heal” that healing becomes something you try to tirelessly earn, leading to burnout and dissatisfaction.
Don’t get me wrong, there is a place for self-help books and other forms of trying to improve yourself; however, not acknowledging your emotions, desires, or traits that you find difficult to love is not helping you heal. In fact, it is essential for your progress to simply acknowledge these parts of yourself. It is essential that we not only acknowledge these parts of us that we are not especially fond of, but that we also try to be curious and compassionate towards these “bad” parts of us. Relationships with these parts mean being curious about them, and that fosters healing. You can identify and learn about your “bad parts”; however, mere identification is not what will foster healing.
What Fosters Healing Is:
- Attuning to your inner experience
- Listening to your body’s response
- Asking yourself the tough questions
- Staying in the moment versus trying to get the “bad parts of ourselves” to leave
- Showing compassion for yourself
- Being curious about your feelings and behaviors
- Making connections between your past and your present (I felt unimportant growing up. Today, if my husband says anything that “feels” like I am unimportant, I get offended.)
- Forgiving yourself for what you did to try to survive and cope
- Bringing these “bad parts of us we don’t like” to prayer.
Think about it this way. Consider your connections with others. It is not merely recognizing their darkness that fosters the deepest intimacy and healing, but rather when you stay alongside them in that darkness. By extending compassion, mercy, curiosity, and a sense of discipleship, you help illuminate the path to the light. Doing the same for ourselves with the parts of us we don’t like will also promote healing!
To learn more about healing through compassion for yourself, call us at Therapy Solutions to talk to one of our mental health counselors and Take Your Life Back!


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Congratulatory Corner
On April 23rd, three of our staff members’ children were inducted into the National Honor Society as sophomores:
- Sarina (daughter of Roberta Wock)
- Molly (daughter of Amanda Ellerkamp)
- Masha (daughter of Sasha Tsibur-Mayer)
Congratulations to these incredible students and their proud parents!

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Staff Book Club: “Shelf Care”
Mental Health Book Recommendation
Boundaries in Marriage
By Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
5 stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
“This book dives deep into the importance of setting healthy boundaries within marriage, not in a way that divides partners but in a way that encourages mutual respect and strengthens the relationship. It is a very practical book with real-life examples. It is easy to read and very insightful and helpful. The writing is compassionate and faith-based, so it feels like the authors really understand where couples are coming from and the unique challenges they face.”
— Brenda, MH Counselor


Fiction Book Recommendation
The Last Letter
By Rebecca Yarros
5 stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
“Grab your tissues for this one! An emotional book about a single mother of twins that battles between a business, cancer, loss and love. It’s happy tears and sad tears throughout. I loved all the main characters in this book. Definitely engaging, heart-breaking and hard to put down!”
—Haylee, Occupational Therapist
Staff Spotlight: OT Intern

The Occupational Therapy Department has a new intern joining us until August! Jillian Bechtold is currently attending the University of Mary, where she is completing her Doctorate of Occupational Therapy. She is now in her third year and expects to graduate in April 2026.
Jillian was born in Cody, WY, and later moved to Dickinson in middle school. She graduated high school from DHS in 2019 and has stayed in North Dakota ever since. Jillian and her husband have lived in Bismarck for 2 years. During her internship, she is staying with her family who live here in Dickinson. Jillian has two younger siblings—one just graduated from high school and the other is a junior. She also has a 2-year-old golden retriever. When she is not busy with school, Jillian loves to read, take her dog on walks, watch her brother play baseball, and spend time with her family and friends.
One of Jillian’s main areas of interest is pediatric and adolescent behavioral health. After graduation, she sees herself working with kids in some capacity; however, she has really enjoyed all of the populations she has worked with and would be open to working anywhere. Jillian also shared, “I am excited about this opportunity to learn from everyone at Therapy Solutions, and am super grateful for the mentorship and experience I will gain during my time here.”

Walk Away From Foot and Ankle Pain This Summer
Summer is finally here, bringing ample opportunities for outdoor activities like hiking and lake outings. However, increased summer activity can strain your feet and ankles, especially if you’re less active during the rest of the year. At Therapy Solutions, our goal is to ensure you can enjoy summer without foot and ankle pain hindering your plans.
Common Causes of Foot and Ankle Pain:
1. Plantar Fasciitis: A common cause of heel and bottom-of-foot pain, often triggered by long walks or unsupportive shoes.
2. Ankle Sprains: Frequently seen among joggers and hikers, caused by stretching or tearing ankle ligaments during activities.
3. Tendinitis: Irritation of foot and ankle tendons from repetitive motions, common during active vacations.
4. Stress Fractures: Tiny cracks in foot or ankle bones from excessive activity, such as sudden increases in walking or running.
5. Neuropathy: Nerve damage leading to numbness or tingling, often related to conditions like diabetes.
Why Foot Pain Feels Worse in Summer
Higher temperatures lead to wearing less supportive footwear like flip-flops or going barefoot, increasing injury risks, especially on uneven or hot surfaces.
How Our Team Can Help:
Hands-On Therapy Techniques:
a. Joint mobilization and manual stretching to improve ankle movement and reduce tension.
b. Soft tissue massage to aid healing and alleviate discomfort.
Targeted Exercises:
a. Mobility training and strengthening exercises for ankle, calf, and foot muscles to enhance joint support.
b. Balance drills to improve stability and prevent injuries.
Gait and Movement Training:
a. A comprehensive assessment to correct walking or running patterns that contribute to pain.
b. Custom strategies for safe movement across different surfaces.
Personalized Strategies:
a. Footwear recommendations and activity modifications for summer activities.
b. Bracing or taping techniques for added joint stability.
Don’t Let Pain Slow You Down This Summer
Our team at Therapy Solutions is dedicated to helping you enjoy a pain-free summer. Schedule an appointment with our physical and occupational therapists to regain your mobility and make the most of the season.
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Brenda’s Recipe:
Pull Apart Sliders

- 2 Packs Hawaiian Rolls
- 2 lbs. Ground Beef
- 2 Packets French Onion Soup Mix (seasoning packet)
- 1 cup Shredded Cheddar Cheese
- 2/3 cup Mayo
- 6 slices American or Cheddar Cheese
- 1 tbsp. Melted Butter
- 1 tbsp. Sesame Seeds
- Optional Toppings Pickles, relish, ketchup, mustard, caramelized onion, bacon etc.
Directions:
- Begin by cooking ground beef in a large skillet over medium heat with the packet of French onion seasoning mix. Cook until the meat is fully browned and then carefully drain off any grease.
- Remove the ground beef from the heat and set it aside to cool for a few minutes. While the beef is cooling, prep your slider buns.
- I prefer Hawaiian rolls for this recipe, but any other slider dinner roll works. Use a sharp serrated knife and cut the entire loaf evenly in a horizontal cut. Keep the buns connected. This gives you one large top bun and one large bottom bun. Repeat on the second loaf and set aside.
- Prep 2 sheets of overlapping foil and spray with non-stick spray. The buns will stick on the top and bottom if you skip this step.
- Once the beef mixture has cooled slightly, add the shredded cheese and the mayo and use a spatula to fully mix and combine everything. I do not recommend substitutes for the mayo (it is meant to add moisture and acts as a binder).
- Place your bottom buns over the foil so they are side by side and touching. Scoop all of your beef mixture and pour it evenly onto the bottom buns.
- Add any other toppings like pickles, bacon, onions, etc as desired. Then cover with the slices of cheddar or American cheese.
- Add the top buns and press down lightly. Wrap in foil tightly.
- Bake or smoke the pull apart sliders in a preheated 350 F. degree oven (or smoker on indirect heat). Cook until heated through and the cheese has melted, about 25-30 minutes.
- Melt the butter in a small bowl and brush over the top of the buns and then garnish with sesame seeds for a more authentic burger bun feel.
- Place on a platter and allow your guests to grab and go as needed! You can slice these too if you desire.

Service Spotlight: Dry Needling
Did you know dry needling is beneficial and pain-free?
Dry needling is a safe and effective method of treatment provided at Therapy Solutions to reduce pain and muscle tension, while simultaneously improving mobility.
It has been proven to treat numerous musculoskeletal issues, including acute and chronic injuries, overuse injuries, neck pain, headaches, back pain, sciatica, muscle spasms, muscle strains, tendinitis, knee pain, hip pain, fibromyalgia, tennis elbow, golfer’s elbow, and more.
If you are looking for relief, or if you’d like to gain more information on how dry needling could benefit you, request an appointment at Therapy Solutions today!

































